for women and men

Somethings are just too good to keep to yourself, so I had to share this one:

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. - AMEN!
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. - AMEN!

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. - AMEN! AMEN!
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find whatmakes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no,
you can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. - SO TRUE, SO TRUE!
Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? - AMEN!

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within. - AMEN!

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. - THAT'S RIGHT!

Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less. - AMEN!

Never let a man define who you are. -
ABSOLUTELY!Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. - DOUBLE AMEN!

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. - AMEN!

All men are NOT dogs. - WHAT!

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you..
a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals..
look for someone complimentary
...not supplementary. - AMEN!

Make him miss you sometimes

Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man. - THAT'S RIGHT!
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...
You'llmake someone smile,
another rethink her choices,
and another woman prepare.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
an hour to appreciate them,
a day to love them and
an entire lifetime to forget them

note: not hating men, simply enlightening women to make better choices
and men to be better men.